Tips for finding a therapist

  • Start by identifying what support you are looking for, such as anxiety, relationships, trauma, life transitions, identity exploration, or general support.
  • Consider practical factors such as insurance, private pay fees, scheduling, telehealth versus in-person care, and therapist location.
  • Look for a therapist whose approach, lived experience, or clinical focus feels relevant to your needs.
  • Use consultation calls to ask about style, specialties, availability, and whether the therapist has experience supporting concerns similar to yours.
  • Pay attention to how you feel in early sessions. Feeling safe, respected, and understood is an important part of fit.
  • It is okay to try more than one therapist before deciding who feels right for you.

Warmlines and hotlines

A warmline is a 24/7 volunteer peer-run hotline that offers emotional support pre-crisis.

View the warmline directory

A hotline is a 24/7 service staffed by trained professionals to address a mental health crisis and make immediate connections to aid.

  • Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
  • GLBT National Hotline: 888-843-4564
  • National Coalition Of Anti-Violence Programs: 212-714-1141 (English and Spanish)

Coming Soon

Paid resources:

I offer self-directed videos for purchase to help continue practicing positive mindsets and other self-help courses. Please stay tuned for more information.